Position of the Week: Carnal Crossing
If you’ve enjoyed the classic 69 position, you’ll love Carnal Crossing, which adds a thrilling dimension of anal play. This position offers extensive access to both partners’ genitals and anuses, allowing for intense stimulation and a shared, heightened pleasure experience.
How to Do Carnal Crossing:
1. Partner One: Lie on your back on the bed, spreading your arms and legs out to form a star shape.
2. Partner Two: Straddle Partner One’s head, with your knees near their shoulders. Lower yourself carefully until your genitals rest over their face.
3. Lower Yourself: Place your hands on the bed in front of you and walk them out, lowering yourself onto your elbows until your face hovers over your partner’s genitals. Use your knees and elbows to keep yourself slightly above your partner to avoid squashing them.
In this position, both partners are perfectly poised for oral sex while also having easy access to each other’s anuses, creating an opportunity for dual stimulation.
Why Carnal Crossing?
Carnal Crossing elevates the 69 position by combining it with anal play, offering up-close views and added intensity. The bottom partner can spread the top partner’s cheeks, allowing for licking, massaging, and probing of both the genitals and anus.
Tips for Carnal Crossing:
1. Flavored Lube: Apply flavored lube to your partner’s anus and alternate between using your fingers and tongue for stimulation. This keeps your partner guessing and adds a fun twist.
Anal Toys: Enhance the experience with anal toys. For those with a penis, a prostate massager can target the P-spot, while anal dildos or beads are suitable for all genders. Use plenty of anal lube and slide the toys in and out while teasing the genitals with your tongue.
1. Bottom Partner: Use hands to thrust a massager or dildo slowly into the top partner’s anus.
2. Top Partner: An anal prober with a loop handle is easier to control when using one hand.
Make It Easier:
· Vibrating Butt Plugs: If managing an anal prober and oral sex simultaneously is challenging, use vibrating butt plugs. They maintain anal stimulation while you focus on oral pleasure.
· Pillows for Knees: If you have sensitive knees, kneel on pillows to reduce pressure on your joints.
Make It Even Better:
· Orgasm Gel: Incorporate orgasm gel for additional stimulation. During the session, take breaks to massage orgasm balm into each other’s balls or labia. The tingling sensation will enhance the pleasure, making the climax even more explosive.