Position of the Week: Bear Hug
How?
For a close and personal experience, try the Bear Hug. The receiving partner stands with one leg raised in a bent position, while the giving partner enters from behind, either anally or vaginally. The giving partner can hold onto their lover’s raised ankle or wrap their arms around their torso. Either way, the giver should hold their partner tight and draw them in close.
· If the giving partner sets the pace: Surrender to their rhythm and ride.
· If the receiver wants to take charge: Move together to find the right motion.
Why?
The Bear Hug allows the giving partner a wide range of motion while the receiving partner is held in a tight, intimate embrace. It offers more intense G-spot or P-spot stimulation and allows the giving partner to reach around and caress their lover’s penis or clitoris. The position can increase in intensity without having to switch positions or move to a new location. Adjusting the leg's height or bending at the waist can help explore different depths and angles, as well as varying the pace.
Try
The Bear Hug can be both soft and intimate or an exploration of power, pleasure, and pain dynamics. Beginners might exaggerate the firm hold to see how restrictive play feels. Just remember to listen carefully to your partner and back off if they’re not enjoying it. For added thrills, try props like nipple clamps, blindfolds, or handcuffs.
Make it Even Easier
For extra support, lean against a wall or bed to explore different angles. If standing for long periods isn’t possible, try this position seated. The receiving partner can still play with bending and raising one leg to explore varying angles. For an even gentler position, lie on the bed in a spooning position. If the giving partner has mobility in their arms, they can still hold the receiving partner tight while penetrating them from behind.
Make it Even Better
Take full advantage of wandering hands by caressing breasts and chests. Since the giving partner penetrates from behind, there is room to bring a vibrator into play, stimulating the receiving partner’s clitoris or penis and balls. The giving partner can also back up against a suction cup dildo for extra stimulation or wear a butt plug.
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