8 Ways to Feel More Sexual Sensation
Are you craving sex that feels so good it’s like you’ve left the planet? You’re not alone! In our fast-paced, tech-driven world, it’s easy to get stuck in a headspace where we’re constantly connected to screens. As a result, sex can sometimes feel muted or disconnected. But don’t worry—there’s a way to remedy this modern dilemma by radically activating your senses.
“Sexual mindfulness” refers to being fully present during sex, and research shows it can significantly enhance pleasure and connection with your partner. A 2021 study found that when you enter a flow state during sex—completely absorbed in the activity—you and your partner experience higher levels of satisfaction.
Here are 8 ways to engage your senses and increase sexual sensation.
1. Open Your Blood Flow
To experience heightened sensation, get your blood flowing! Increased circulation brings nerve endings closer to the skin's surface, making light touches more intense. There are a variety of ways to get your blood pumping, but if you use cannabis, it can work as a vasodilator, opening blood vessels and increasing circulation. Whether it's exercise, massage, or something else, enhancing your circulation will lead to more sensitive and pleasurable experiences.
2. Light the Right Candle
Certain scents can trigger arousal, and vanilla is one of them. Research shows that vanilla is a legit aphrodisiac, possibly due to its long history of sensual use across cultures. Vanilla smells warm, comforting, and inviting, which makes it a perfect addition to a bedroom setting. Consider using LELO’s vanilla and creme de cacao candle for erotic massages. It melts into a silky oil you can rub into your partner’s body for added pleasure.
3. Expertly Use Light Touch
Gentle, teasing touch is a simple yet effective way to spark sexual excitement. When your partner is lying down, lightly trace their skin with feathers, a silk scarf, or your fingertips. Focus on erogenous zones like the jawline, neck, inner thighs, and sides of the waist, where nerve endings are especially sensitive. This type of sensory play works even better when your partner is blindfolded, adding an element of surprise and deepening the sensation.
4. Use Pressure
Sometimes, the most exciting sensation comes from pressure rather than light touch. Bondage—whether it’s tying wrists or ankles—can trick the brain into a heightened state of arousal. The physical restriction and anticipation create a sexual tension that intensifies pleasure. You don’t need expensive gear to get started—silk scarves or ties work just as well. And if bondage is something you enjoy, having a set of restraints always ready can add spontaneity to your sexual play.
5. Get Tingly During Oral
Oral sex is a fantastic way to explore sensation, and adding a little tingle can elevate the experience. Try sucking on an ice cube right before going down on your partner, or use a menthol drop during oral sex to create a unique, cooling sensation. Another great option is using an arousal gel on the genitals to increase blood flow, heightening sensation and making the experience even more electrifying.
6. Whisper/Growl in Their Ear
Did you know your ears contain erectile tissue? Just like the genital area, your ears can expand when stimulated, creating pleasurable sensations. During sex, whispering something sexy or growling softly can trigger this response, leading to increased arousal. Some people even experience “eargasms,” moments of intense pleasure and euphoria. Try whispering or moaning softly in your partner's ear to see what kind of reaction you can trigger!
7. Embrace Au Naturel Smell
Your natural body odor can be incredibly sexy. Armpits, for instance, are often an underrated erogenous zone. Your natural scent contains chemicals that influence attraction and indicate your emotional and hormonal state. Instead of covering up your natural smell with strong deodorants, consider using a more natural deodorant or one that draws out toxins, allowing your body’s natural scent to shine. This subtle, authentic scent can be a powerful aphrodisiac.
8. Yes Chef: Taste Matters Too
Don’t forget about the sense of taste! Whether it’s the natural taste of your partner’s skin or incorporating flavored lubes and edible body products, your sense of taste can add another layer of pleasure. Try licking whipped cream off your partner’s nipples or indulging in chocolate body paint for a fun, sensual experience. These sweet treats not only trigger dopamine (the “feel-good” chemical) but also make the experience even more playful and erotic. Just be sure to have a damp towel nearby to clean up anything too sugary or sticky afterward.
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