How to Master Cowgirl + Reverse Cowgirl
Who’s ready for a ride? You, obviously (no judgment here). When it comes to the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl positions, there are a few tricks that can elevate the experience. These two classic positions are deeply satisfying, but with the right tips, you’ll be able to make them even more pleasurable. Saddle up, and let’s get into it!
Meet Cowgirl
In the classic Cowgirl position, the giving partner lies on their back while the receiving partner straddles them, kneeling with their shins flush against the surface. The receiving partner is in an upright position, with their weight supported by the giving partner. It’s a position that allows for deep penetration, a full view of the body, and tons of erotic expression.
Meet Reverse Cowgirl
The Reverse Cowgirl is similar but with a twist—the receiving partner faces away from their lover, looking at their feet instead of making eye contact. This position allows for a stunning view of the receiving partner's back and booty. It's perfect for those who prefer a bit of distance or who want to emphasize a booty-focused vibe.
In both positions, there’s plenty of room for freedom with the hands, allowing for stimulation with toys or other movements.
Why Do People Love Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl?
The answer is simple: visuals.
· Cowgirl provides both partners with a full-scale view of the breasts and chest, encouraging eye contact and erotic expression. The top partner can lean back, touch themselves, or explore their body.
· Reverse Cowgirl shifts the focus to the receiving partner’s booty, creating an alluring visual from behind. The top partner can still maintain deep penetration while enjoying the view, and the receiving partner has the option to arch their back to accentuate the booty.
Both positions also allow for deep penetration, and the extra space between the partners means there’s room for sex toys—especially vibrators, which can help create blended orgasms.
Tricks to Make Cowgirl Feel Even Better
Even though Cowgirl is considered medium-level in comfort and ability, these tweaks can make it feel even better for both partners:
1. Lean Back & Apply Clitoral Stimulation
For those with a vagina, Cowgirl provides amazing G-spot stimulation, but combining this with external clitoral stimulation (via a vibrator or hand) makes orgasms even more intense. Lean back, place one hand on the surface for support, and use the other hand (or a toy) to stimulate the clitoris during penetration. You can even experiment with the different settings of a vibrator to find what feels best.
2. Use a Sex Wedge
If you’re experiencing discomfort in your knees, consider placing a sex wedge underneath your thighs. This foam support can help take the pressure off your joints and make the position more comfortable for extended play.
3. Explore Other Leg Placements
Try the "Extended" Cowgirl position by stretching your legs out in front of you and supporting your body with your hands. This change can help relieve strain and make the position feel more comfortable and enjoyable.
4. Hold Their Hips
The giving partner can gain more control over the rhythm by holding the receiving partner’s hips, allowing for deeper penetration and more control during movement.
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Tricks to Make Reverse Cowgirl Feel Even Better
Reverse Cowgirl can feel a little more intense, so here are a few tips to make it more pleasurable:
1. Don’t Over-Arch Your Back
It’s tempting to try and create a dramatic arch in your back, but for comfort’s sake, try tucking your pelvis under slightly. This helps reduce any discomfort, especially for the receiving partner, and creates a more comfortable angle for both.
2. Use a Toy
As Reverse Cowgirl often involves a lot of space between partners, it’s a great opportunity to introduce a clitoral vibrator. Using a toy can provide external stimulation, helping to relax muscles and intensify pleasure. Vibrations can also distract from any discomfort you might feel during penetration.
3. Let the Top Partner Set the Rhythm
In Reverse Cowgirl, the receiving partner usually sets the pace, but the top partner can help control the rhythm too. To avoid any discomfort, the receiving partner should guide the rhythm and depth, ensuring the angle and penetration feel right for both partners
Final Thoughts: Upgraded Positions
Now that you’ve got the tricks to make Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl even hotter, it’s time to put them into practice. With a little creativity, some helpful accessories like vibrators or sex wedges, and clear communication, these positions can deliver intense pleasure for both partners. Get ready for a ride that you’ll never forget!
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