Sex Toys: 3 Benefits for Couples
Firstly, let's debunk a myth: you're not the only couple interested in using sex toys. In fact, 43% of couples are intrigued by the idea of incorporating them into their lives to spice up their sexuality. You're in good company!
Often within relationships, there is reluctance towards using sex toys. Common objections include:
· "What do I need them for?"
· "But I have my partner!"
· "It would be like cheating!"
Let's understand that there's a genuine taboo surrounding the topic that makes even discussing it difficult. But why are couples hesitant to introduce sex toys into their sexual life?
This stems from a prejudice embedded in our culture where men feel their masculinity threatened by an object that "could replace them." Obviously, this fear is unfounded: a man's qualities are multifaceted (both in and out of bed), and there's nothing wrong with using an object for fun as a couple.
And think about it: how could a man who gives pleasure to his partner be seen as "less masculine"? The important thing is to win the battle, regardless of the color of the horse!
The stigma associated with the use of sex toys is also linked to previous advertising. Until recently, marketing was aimed at a niche group rather than the broader range of couples who might be interested. This influenced the general perception of sex toy usage, associating them with special and particular uses rather than normal couples.
Vulgar advertisements based on the objectification of women clearly painted a less-than-friendly picture for those who didn't share such values.
We must also consider the materials used. Years ago, when today's adult couples were experiencing their first sexual encounters, sex toys were made from inferior materials now entirely replaced by medical-grade silicone.
Let's now discuss the three benefits derived from using sex toys within a couple:
Achieving Orgasm! You should know that 87% of women cannot reach orgasm through penetration alone. Simply put, nature has distributed pleasure points elsewhere (like the clitoris), and we must adapt. By integrating a sex toy into your relationship, you combine the pleasure of penetration with that of clitoral stimulation (via sex toy), providing a more satisfying experience for both!
Increasing Intimacy and Intensity Our pleasure is often linked to mental stimulation, not just mechanical. Combining the pleasure from simple penetration with greater visual stimulation can only make the overall encounter more fulfilling.
Renewing the Couple's Relationship Thanks to sex toys, couples can overcome barriers and habits built over the years, discovering new complicity and openness in communication. Sex toys are not a field to leave unexplored but an opportunity to find intimacy and discover a rich, clean environment that can give a spicy jolt to some habits.
Remember: communicate! Ask your partner what they like, ask what you like, and experiment together! The sex toy is not an enemy of the relationship but rather an ally that allows us to experience more pleasure and to do so together.
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