Oral for Her: The Kivin Method
The Kivin method is a unique oral sex position designed to enhance sensations and provide highly pleasurable stimulation for women. This method involves the giver positioning themselves sideways, creating a right-angle alignment with the receiver's vulva.
How It Works
Position:
1. T-Shape: The giver positions themselves perpendicular to the receiver’s vulva.
2. Leg Placement: The receiver’s leg is draped over the giver’s shoulder.
3. Comfort: Use pillows to ensure both partners are comfortable.
Technique:
1. Side-to-Side Tongue Motion: The giver uses their tongue in a side-to-side motion across the vulva.
2. Exploration: Start by exploring the labia, inner thighs, and other areas before moving to the clitoral hood and clitoris.
3. Varied Techniques: Make circles, flick your tongue, and gently suck to find what brings the most pleasure.
Important Considerations
· Clitoral Erection: The clitoris is erectile tissue and will swell when aroused. Some givers report feeling two tiny bumps, known as "K" points, on either side of the clitoral hood once the clitoris is aroused. If detectable, use your tongue across the clitoral hood between these points.
· Individual Preferences: Not every person with a vulva enjoys this type of stimulation or has detectable "K" points. Communication and experimentation are key.
Questions to Discuss
1. Do you like this kind of stimulation?
2. Is it pleasurable for you?
3. As a partner, do you enjoy giving oral in this position?
4. Is it fun and exciting to try something new?
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