Fetishes 101: A Dummies Guide
Kinky sex often carries a stigma, with many viewing those who enjoy it as "sexual freaks," far removed from what is considered "normal." However, kinks are more common than one might think and are accessible to everyone. Your obsessions are not something to be embarrassed about, unless your fetish involves humiliation, in which case, embrace it, you deviant!
Human sexuality is a complex and varied landscape, full of unexpected twists and turns. To help you navigate this labyrinth, we’re breaking down some of the most popular fetishes and kinks right now.
What Is a Fetish?
Kinky sex includes all types of sexual activities that fall outside conventional or "vanilla" sex, which typically refers to traditional intercourse without any unconventional elements. The definition of what is considered "kinky" can vary widely; what one person finds kinky, another might consider standard. Exploring your kinky side can be as adventurous as you want it to be.
Gagging For It
Some people enjoy "gagging" or "choking" during oral sex, though this should not be confused with sexual or autoerotic asphyxiation, which is very dangerous. Gagging enthusiasts enjoy having their partners gag on their penises or using a ball-gag for a similar effect. However, it’s important that the gagging does not lead to breathing difficulties or trigger the vomit reflex.
Bondage play can be diverse and creative, including Japanese Bondage, regular spankings, electric zaps, or wax play, where hot wax is dripped on the submissive partner. Trust is essential in BDSM play; never engage in it with someone you don’t trust.
Appetite For Life
For some, sexual arousal is triggered not by a person or act but by an inanimate object—this is known as objectum sexuality. This fetish can range from a fixation on sex toys or lingerie to being sexually attracted to more unusual items like a washing machine or television. This attraction is often linked to early experiences of arousal.
Material-based fetishes, such as an obsession with leather, latex, silk, or lace, are common. If you’re into leather, for instance, introducing leather items into your sex life can enhance your experience. Start with something simple, like leather gloves, and if it works for you, try more adventurous items like a leather bodysuit or a riding crop.
WAM (Wet and Messy)
Wet and messy fetish (WAM), also known as sploshing, involves being sexually aroused by substances applied to the skin, face, or clothing. Participants in WAM enjoy the sensation of wet or messy substances against their skin or the visual appeal of others getting messy. Common substances include whipped cream, raw eggs, mud, and chocolate sauce. Investing in a vinyl bed sheet might be a good idea if you plan to get things really wet.
Final Thought
These are just a few examples of fetishes, but ultimately, whatever turns you on can be considered a fetish. As long as your actions are consensual and involve only adults, they’re perfectly acceptable. However, if something makes you feel uncomfortable or objectified, it’s okay to stop.
Sex is meant to be fun and exploratory, but always be cautious and stay safe.
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