Temperature Play: Adding Sizzle and Chill to Your Sexy Time
Dabbling with different temperatures can be a fun way to bring variety, playfulness, and new sensations into your intimate moments. Our bodies have so many potential erogenous zones. It’s easy to focus solely on the genitals and forget the myriad sensitive areas all over the body. Introducing hot and cold can be an intriguing way to explore with yourself or with a partner.
Focusing on your senses helps you stay present in the moment, get out of your head, and pay attention to what your body is feeling. Adding temperature is a relatively easy addition to sensual play. Getting curious about incorporating hot and cold and negotiating consent around it beforehand also alerts your brain to prepare and be on alert for new sensations. It can create exciting and sexy anticipation for your body to experience something new.
3 Ways to Bring the Heat
1. Massage Candle or Warmed Massage Oil: Explore erogenous zones with heated wax or oil for a tantalizing warm touch.
2. Hot Drinks: Drink something hot before kissing or oral sex to transfer the warmth through your lips and mouth.
3. Warm Water Play: Focus a showerhead with various degrees of warm water on your genitals. For a hands-free pleasure tool, consider the Waterslyde water diverter for an arousing water experience.
3 Ways to Cool It Down
1. Ice Cubes: Keep an ice cube in your mouth while kissing or during oral sex for a cool, refreshing sensation.
2. Ice Drip: Run a piece of ice down your throat and follow the drip to your navel, or have a partner follow the drip with their tongue. Try the sensation of cold grazing the nipples or earlobes.
3. Popsicles or Whipped Cream: Play with popsicles or whipped cream and have fun licking it off each other.
1 Way to Add Intensity
1. Blindfolding: Taking away one sense can heighten another. Consider blindfolding a partner on the receiving end of temperature play, with consent first, of course. This can add an element of surprise and intensity to hot and cold sensations.
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